My boyfriend and I have been together for five years and in the beginning I cheated but he decided to stay with me and we work on us so we did that and now we have a soon to be three year old. Like every relationship we have our ups and downs but last August I caught him cheating and he cut that relationship off in December and then in February he starts cheating with another girl and it’s going on a year now of him doing this and I recently caught him today with the same girl. Every time he is in the wrong he uses my cheating to make his wrong right and I know it’s not right but I feel like him cheating is my fault. I don’t want to lose him but at this point I feel like I’m just a doormat. I need advice and opinions.
@jabarismommy, I really don’t mama but honestly I’m so over it cus my dumb ass argues and stays so I don’t go looking he is a great dude other wise that was his problem I don’t know if they still talk but if after all that time and she kept popping up I wouldn’t doubt it
@skysmommy04, omg how do you deal with it? I am stressed tf out. How do you stay knowing what he is doing?
Leave his sorry ass. If he continues to do this he obviously doesn't care at all.
Oh sweetie I’m sorry. You made a mistake and if he going to continue to cheat on you and still use your one mistake as an excuse to cheat then he isn’t the person for you. You are so much better then that and you could find someone that will treat and respect you and your kids the way y’all need to be treated and respected. My thoughts and prayers are with you and hoping you make the right decision.