My SO never care me he just giving me a stress :( cant even enjoy my pregnancy

Кто такой SO?

Are you sure it's not your hormones ? Maybe you should talk. . .

Sometimes men also need time to realize or learn new life or role of being father. They can also be afraid of changes

@julia-gulenc, so - significant other , парень, ее мужчина😊

@gunay_tan i tried talked many times he never listen amd still do what he want and never care what my feelings or maybe he dont know if hes doing right or not.. tired of understandimg, İm just crying alone amd stressing.. İ never fight without reasons.

@julia-gulenc hi i dont understand russians :)

No stress- your mood and your babies are all you should take care.

Maybe you both need time, just abstract from him, take care of your health, maybe some courses , gym.

But respect yourself! If he is real idiot dont sacrafise yourself

@gunay_tan i wanted to go back to my country, and But i dont have a money for plane ticket. İ really want to leave him. İ will be peaceful without him,

Ohh its problem. In this case you have to go back to your home, men here almost always dont allow to stay children with mom in case of devorce or some like that. Can you sale smth ot just ask for help at the ambassy of your country.

@gunay_tan what is smth ?

you r right. My husband family are great but my husband hes a good man but maybe we are not match amd just hurting each other :(

@alissabacud, something - jewellery

Dont hurry. May be everything will be ok. In case you want runaway dont have baby here, men here always keep children dont allow women to take her children with her to the home. Be in contact with your family and friends in your country they can help you.

But dont make quick dicisions

@alissabacud, you are so young! ) How old is your SO? And did you have problems with him before pregnancy?

im 19 my husband is 30. yes. İ thought he will chang :(

@k.mehri.blc im 19 my husband is 30. yes. İ thought he will chang :(

@gunay_tan u r right. Btw about to jewerly u r saying is that kind of work? maybe i can make a try amd earn money for future and leave

@alissabacud, Well, i dont know exactly, you can sell gold accessories at "kuyumcu" - place or shop where people here buy gold accessories.

@gunay_tan maybe i could try thanl u anyway :)

@alissabacud, you are welcome😊 oh, and keep your ID and its copies far away of your husband, in secret places. Men here always take away and hide womens id, to not give them chance of leaving

Take care of yourself😘

@gunay_tan i will remember that...

@gunay_tan, My husband never even had a hint of thought to hide my ID. Just it was a mistake to think a man will change.

@polinia, not always but there were cases😊

I hope you can solve this situation 🙏🏻

Just think twice ...if your family can help you, it's can make easier your decision , because in future with small babies , especially twins you need help of someone.

Do you think, he is so bad person that he don't deserve to see and grow up children?

@olyaatalan i know hes not a bad man but hes not on his words, when he said something he will do it again and again... His words are like a knife, i domt see even a respect amd he always shout.

How did you live before pregnancy? Same as now??? Be careful it could be hormones! And also for your husband it's serious new step in life! Mine just two days ago said me that he just realized about our baby and he loves me and we are really going to become parents. Even we talked before pregnancy so many times about kids and etc... But when it was happen and he knew he was so stressful. I asked him few times hug my belly, he didn't do it, run away... I was crying sometimes. And I also told him few times also that I want to go to my country... And Once We argued so badly, I started pack my luggage and my belly started aching so badly and I was scared... And I lay down to bed and decided to be calm and happy just for me and baby. I gave time to my husband... And I tried to walk, relax, think about baby... And we stopped argue. And finally it changed. Hormones sometimes don't give us to think in right way. I wish you be wise!!!

@miss.anzhi i am sure that its not only hormones, before and now hes doing like this, just getting worst and worst :(

@alissabacud, I think that if it was before you had to think more and it's serious. It's so recently like 1/100 that man changing his behavior. Try to talk with him, wisely talk. Without emotions. Share what you don't like, share your worries. But don't argue.

@miss.anzhi i must do what u said