Okay my fiancé ALWAYS wants sex and I don’t and then when we try skylar doesn’t want to go in her…
Okay my fiancé ALWAYS wants sex and I don’t and then when we try skylar doesn’t want to go in her own bed and he’s so fucking negative and tells me “it’s never going to work” (her sleeping by herself) and it makes me so mad because he doesn’t understand. And he says he’s “fine” without sex and he’s used to it and idk why but his negativity makes me so mad and makes me want to just give up in all. And I tell him ALL the time I can’t stand it and he needs to stop but he doesn’t. I wish he understood half of what I go through with doing 90% of taking care of her by myself because he’s always at work and when he’s home he’s on his dumb Xbox or not paying attention to skylar cause he’s on his phone but if I am on my phone he bitches about me “always” being on my phone.
Sara Guinn·
Мама сына-младенца
That's how men are lol
Sierra Eggert·
Мама дочки-младенца
@saraguinn23, it sucks! Lol
Ally·
Are you in my head? Peeking through my windows? You just described my life
Sierra Eggert·
Мама дочки-младенца
@allyk.xmommy, it’s so frustrating man! I know your every single stuggle! Ugh
Sara Guinn·
Мама сына-младенца
@sierraeggert69 yeah it does! lol I'm going through the same thing! Your sex life totally changes after a baby! My husband wants it and I'm like I just want sleep don't touch me lol
Sierra Eggert·
Мама дочки-младенца
@saraguinn23, right and he doesn’t understand that one bit. He think I don’t want him and he’s not good enough.
Ally·
@sierraeggert69 its crazy! And then when i want to spend time with him, all he wants to do is have sex, and all i wanna do in snuggle
Sierra Eggert·
Мама дочки-младенца
@allyk.xmommy, same! Omg I’m glad I’m not alone in this struggle lol
Sara Guinn·
Мама сына-младенца
@sierraeggert69 yeah that's totally not it men just don't understand how tired we are after taking care of our babies!
Sierra Eggert·
Мама дочки-младенца
@saraguinn23, exactly! I wish they understood!
Ally·
@sierraeggert69 he tells me im crazy lol that "normal" couples have sex all the time. Im like show me a couple who have kids and a baby that have sex everyday, every other day or more than 3-5x a week lol
Sierra Eggert·
Мама дочки-младенца
@allyk.xmommy, right! Mine just think he’s not good enough and I don’t want to be with him the only reason I’m with him is skylar and I don’t have to work which irks me sooooo much because that’s not it at all
Jewls·
Мама четверых детей
@sierraeggert69 its terrible when things change, but even though it seems pretty selfish the way its about sex it's just the way men connect with us. We connect emotionally and that's their way to connect with us, it lets them know u still love them. But u know it was hard for me to understand that cause well y can't they just understand us right? But sex is what makes a relationship different from a friendship. And i totally get u when u do try the baby is like not having it😂keep trying do not give up it will work out as lo ng as u r willing🤗keep doing a great job
Ally·
@sierraeggert69 he thinks the same! I think it's a guilt trip