So my fiance is leaving arizona to go get a place for us in wisconsin and im not going becuz ive…

Some couples joke like that because they know "they can" .. if it's nor normal it would make me wonder 🤔 hopefully u two just joke like that! My man comes home from work with the guys texting about where they work the next day and I'll make jokes about him telling his girl not to hit him up while he's home with his family lol

@boymom_ it wasn't a joke.

@kuehnk11 why don't u just tell him how it made you feel and ask how your supposed to take what he said before u over think it, that's what I do .. I'm great at mis understanding

@boymom_ i do, it doesnt matter hes selfish, all he says ever is ur stupid shut up kinda things.

@kuehnk11 if he was saying it intentionally as a jerk or throwing in my face id tell him to kiss my ass and find a 1bdrm to live alone!

@kuehnk11 😕 u should have to deal with that

@boymom_ we live with my mom, they wont let me work...

@boymom_ he says its normal in his family..

@kuehnk11 oh, hopefully things will eventually change for the better, if not I'd say stay strong for your kids till u can change your environment without depending on anyone else. I know how hard that can be, ive been there. Its Not easy, my kids kept me strong and eventually I was able to do everything on my own. Give it some time, stay positive and don't let anyone treat u any less!

@kuehnk11 it's normal for alot of people, but that doesn't make it ok, only u know your situation though