I need your guys in put. I feel like im going crazy. If my fiancé works the days i have off(his job…
I need your guys in put. I feel like im going crazy.
If my fiancé works the days i have off(his job is working with my schedule) shouldnt he help with the house. I have like 2-3days off a week. So obviously he works that much. But i just broke down today because im always saying its not hard to start the laundry or pick up your soda cans or obviously just keep the house picked up. If you want to build a future with your other half. Dont you think you would help? You live there too. Like am i crazy to go off when our house isnt big at ALL! (We live in like a Studio apartment but its a house<— if that makes since) so not big at all to keep up and help with. Sorry if its ling. But I needed to vent. Plus know im not the one that is just a baby and crying over stupid crap.
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He definitely needs to clean up after himself and keep the place tidy on his days off.
Kristy Soesbe·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@damiensmommy1117, like if he starts and switches laundry i fold it. And i take care of the trash and he takes the trash can down to the dumpster when its full. Ive done ALL of his part on top of mine all week
Fairy Godmother·
I'm with ya girl! My fiancés favorite phrase is "you're the mom, that's your job." Drives me mad! I work about 4-6 hour shifts 5 days a week. He drives a school bus, so he works 6a-9a comes home for 4 1/2 hours then goes back to work from 2p-5p
He watches the baby for those 4 1/2 hours, because I'm at work, but nothing else is ever done. I have to do it when I get home, while trying to take care of baby. He would probably make me take her to work with me if he could.
I love my man to death, but sometimes I feel like I might as well be a single mother.
Kristy Soesbe·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@one.tired.momma, i work at caseys. We are short people for one. So i work morning(6am-3pm), lunch(10am-4pm)& close(3pm-11pm all throughout the week. I get maybe like that lkl.
Fairy Godmother·
@brooklynnsmama, yeah, he should definitely be helping you out.
I worked 8-9 hour shifts for half my pregnancy, but it got too hard so I switched to part time. Now he tells me that it's not what I used to do, it's what I do now that matters.
I'm mean, I'm pretty sure I didn't get pregnant by myself, lol.
I would have gone back to full time after my maternity leave was over, but I had already given up my position.