Why does my daughter have to be so dramatic and bossy she is watching baby boss and I told her to fall asleep to it well…

Why does my daughter have to be so dramatic and bossy she is watching baby boss and I told her to fall asleep to it well she just started to cry and told me to lay down I told her okay and I am laying on my stomach and she told me to go night night and I am not laying down. This girls is ether on my nerves or make me so happy that it hurts.