I have been having a problem these past few months. I moved away from my home state due to financial problems and am currently living with my husbands sister and her best friend...

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I have been having a problem these past few months. I moved away from my home state due to financial problems and am currently living with my husbands sister and her best friend. I also have my 3 kids. Now because they have allowed to let us stay here for $350 a month until we get back on our feet. My problem is, they feel as though this is their house that theybhave the right to dicipline my children they way they want and whenever they want, including spanking. They told us that if we have a problem with it than we were no longer allowed to stay here and we would have to find somewhere to go immediately. Now my question: is it right for them to be dicipling them just because they are giving is a place to stay. Me personally I don't like it but we moved half way across the county with really no where. Else to go at the moment. I don't lnow what to do. Any help or advice???

12.12.2017

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I have been a mom over 22yrs of my life.my oldest is 22 and i am 38..yes i had him young..listen NO ONE has the right to put their hands on anyone's child family fucking included..No way ! how dare they think they can put control on all in their house.Please Leave for the safety of your children. Every city has organizations that could help you with a moving deposit asap because..you have kids.I don't tell anyone how to parent THEIR child

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jassyburton62612

@derricksmama. Thank you. As for the holidays they don't celebrate Christmas so my kids aren't even going to have a Christmas this year.

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derricksmama_104

I’m sorry that this is the situation you guys are in. It isn’t at all right for them to think they could do this they offered the help for you guys to stay at there place with that amount $ okay that’s all nothing more! Rules for the kids ha that’s some funny crap! Well I wish you luck on your next move k enjoy the holidays the best way u can 🎄🤗

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jassyburton62612

@mari_c thanks for the advise. I feel like I can now address the situation a little better and hopefully rhey will have a better understanding. It was just 2 days ago that I addressed the situation and my sister in law busted out crying saying that we make it seem like she is abusing the kids and making her out to be a villan. Totally flipped it to make us feel bad. She isn't abusing them but I just don't like the fact that she pops them on the hands and little thighs.

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jassyburton62612

@damiensmommy1117 I feel like one of these days I am going to snap. I'm usually a quiet and non confrontational person but not being able to do much about the situation has me feeling like the worst mom in the world.

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soul96

But those are NOT their kids. Do they take care of them? I doubt it. Your paying your part, that doesn't mean they can lay hands on your children. Your the mother. In no way would I let anyone touch my child. I'm sorry your going through this but put your foot down, sometimes people will see how far they can push you and get away with. Get out of there as soon as you can. They should be informed they are not to touch your children.

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jassyburton62612

@derricksmama Thank you! I have even been contemplating staying at a family shelter until we find a place because I know they are just wrong. For the most part I try to have my boys just listen and behave and if they do anything wrong I jump in on the dicipling before they could. A lot of what my 2 and 4 year old do is acceptable behavior for my husband and I but ro them they won't allow them to do certain things. My husband has told them numerous times not spank them and it just ends up being a full blown fight and then I have to take the kids outside or out for a walk so they don't see that. I'm definitely moving out ASAP because what they are doing just isnt right.

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derricksmama_104

This is a no no girl! No way should they have the authority to do that just because it’s under there roof rules in any house hold are about the house not about the kids. I would try to find some place else.

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I would break their goddamn hands if they touched my child. It doesn't matter if you live with them or not, that doesn't make them the parent of your child. I'm sorry you're in such a rough situation.

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jassyburton62612

@badadvicemom I feel the same way. But I feel as though in order to stay here until I can find my own place (which im hoping in a few more weeks) They definitely still feel the need to dicipline my children because it's their house. Or we have to go!

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No. No one but me and my husband are to ever put hands on our children. It would have to be an extreme extenuating circumstance for me to be ok with someone else doing som

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