I put the squash on that sh*t really early! It helped that hubby also thinks his mom is coo coo! But with her, I let her know that if we have plans, WE have plans, not her and him, him and I.

When we told her I was pregnant she had a huge tantrum and said I “stole her baby boy and made him grow up and have a family of his own”. He was 21 when we met, had already moved 3000 miles away and back twice. He was a grown guy when I met him.

Assert your dominance now! Because later it’s going to come down to her mothering YOUR kid and trying to take your place if is dominating his time now. Some moms just don’t let go... Talk to your spouse first, give him a chance to tell her to back off. If he doesn’t, or she doesn’t hear him, you need to.

I go through that sometimes it's extremely ANNOYING try dealing with a mother in law who LIVES off her son she's his payee for social security and feel the right to take all the money and not give him shit.