I’m disappointed. I’m exhausted. I’m numb. My partner and I had a fulfilling sex life before I found out I was pregnant. However, against his will I made the decision to not get an abortion or give away my baby for adoption. This obviously put a heavy strain on every aspect of our relationship, including our sex life. He went from having a high sex drive to having none. 6 months past the pregnancy we’re in a much better place and are falling back in love with each other. He’s still said that he doesn’t have a sex drive at all—that it’s not me. The shock factor of the pregnancy has really messed with him mentally but it’s going to get better. I still have physical needs and desires, in which I’ve put on hold in support to him. I’ve tried making moves on him but he turns me down. Last night I woke up to him looking at porn on RedIt and jerking off. I called him out on it but he tried lying about it and then came clean. I don’t know what to make out of this. I feel betrayed. I’m hurt. I’m angry and overall just exhausted. I’ve willingly sacrificed myself in many ways for him, and stood beside him patiently to accept fatherhood. To see that he has a sex drive with other women but not with me makes me lose the hope he had given me. I’ve continually said no to other men who have attempted to pursue me, obviously because I’m in a relationship. I value loyalty even during hard times. What do guys think? If a man is physically next to you but mentally and emotionally with other women, does that constitute as cheating? Or am I overreacting and I this natural? How should I handle this?