So I think my husband has been trying to tell me something without telling me if that makes sense.…

@sumria She's right. Why would he say that? Makes no sense, is that his way of getting rid of them? Not good

@sumria they are both OUR ex girlfriend's. He wanted to see what they would say or try and get at him. He wanted to see if there were in the relationship for both of us or just him and his money

@marita97 to see who was really in it for us

@sumria I'm sorry. I didn't mean to be rude. I meant that your right to ask. I would also that think that if my hubby said that. I would feel like he doesn't want me no more

@marita97 @sumria that's what I was thinking too but I asked him if this was his way of telling me it was over and he said NO

@sumria that's what I thinking

@sumria Sorry. I'm overly emotional right now since my period has come back after months with the IUD.

@mommys4angels He shouldn't be doing that. It makes you feel like he's saying its over but he says it not. Tell him how you feel about it

@marita97 I have told him how it makes me feel.

@mommys4angels What did he say?

@marita97 that I was being silly and if he wanted to leave he would just tell me

@sumria I think that all the time. Exactly since the woman he finds are much younger than me. Like the first one is 25 and the other one is 24.

@mommys4angels I agree with @sumria Constantly worrying isn't good

@marita97 I no it not

@sumria I still have my IUD, after months with no period and then bam it happens and all the cramping come back. Next year is when I get it removed

@sumria Well the 24 year old we have never really met in person she was just a phone sex person the other one fell in our lap 6 years ago and than she moved to Texas and back in August she hit me up telling me she was being beating by her baby daddy. We've been trying to help her get to where we live but she's making you excuses after excuses why she can't come

@sumria Thinking of getting a different birth control

@sumria that's what I've been saying for about two months now. But he won't believe me. He wants to take a trip down there when he gets home to be like hey see we are here we want to help you. But I think even if we do she won't come. I don't think she ever had a plan to

@mommys4angels Like @sumria said. If she doesn't want your help, then leave it. You can only help the people that will accept your help. Its hard

@marita97 I no but he wont she has a 1 year old that he's worried about. And it's not even his.

@sumria I have Lilleta

@mommys4angels Do they have a history? I'm worried about the baby. She has to do something for the Baby's safety

@marita97 we all three have a history together. But just the two of them no.

@mommys4angels Even if he wants to go, the one who is being with the abuser is her right now with the baby. She has to do something about it for her sake and her baby

@marita97 that's what I'm saying. But it's like she doesn't want to leave it's been since July that we've been trying but no it this or that why she can't come. I've been done playing games with her but my husband keeps saying that her kid needs us to keep trying

@sumria That's the thing we only had sex with her maybe four times. We haven't seen her in six years. That's the problem I feel he's putting them before me and our 4 kids. The only time she hits him up is for money.

@sumria I no this but my husband doesn't

@sumria no if we have it.

@sumria that's what I was thinking too.

@sumria yes. Even if it mean his own family goes without

@mommys4angels He has to put his own family first. That's his priority.

@sumria You are 💯 right!

@sumria I was afraid of that she has his heart. I never thought of that until now. Wow. I've been trying really hard to get him all to myself but he's not willing to just have me anymore. I just don't know what to do anymore. I feel so lost. That must be why he keeps telling me everytime he gets off the phone with me that he loves me. He never use to do that until about a month ago

@sumria now I'm really scared that he might do that to me. He has seen her twice without me. Both time was for money. The last he got off the phone with me to talk to her. He said he didn't want me to be on the phone cuz of our breaks was bad. Than I called back and they was talking about something that they stopped as soon he answered the phone. I'm lost right now and if I bring it but he'll say I'm letting my feelings get in the way.

@mommys4angels I'm sorry this is happening to you. He has to let her go if he truly loves you and your family. He is doing all this with her and telling you to basically leave it all alone. Like @sumria says, you might have to give him an ultimatum

@sumria we had a set of rules but it doesn't seem to be helping anymore. I have told him that she needs to come to me for anything but he never told her. @marita97 ty. I no I deserve to be loved