Wow if anyone has fb please join this group called imperfect mothers. I'm all for being honest but some of these women…
Wow if anyone has fb please join this group called imperfect mothers. I'm all for being honest but some of these women are so rude I'm hanging my mouth open like wth. One of you bought it up yesterday don't remember who so I thought I'd check it out and I'm shocked with some of the stuff I'm reading 👀
Lindsey ·
What does the group profile pic look like
Alisha Pomells ·
Alisha Pomells ·
@mamanow93 I've Posted It Below X
hayley fletcher·
There is a great group called MOLO, it is completely non judgemental and actually shows mums are all in the same boat, and it does make you giggle quite a bit! X
Alisha Pomells ·
@missashleyanne people calling their kids cunts and saying they hate being mum's and stuff I was like wow. And they mean it uno it's not a joke. And the debates we've had on here like about earrings and circumcision and stuff have been pg like no-one is overly rude maybe just passionate the women can be nasty like start talking about people religions being wrong and stuff it's interesting to read but I was shocked at how nice this app is in comparison x
Alisha Pomells ·
@hayleyf that's how it should be. I feel like some people are serious keyboard warriors and use these apps and groups just to be nasty there's a way to talk to people. I'll check it out. Thank hun x
hayley fletcher·
It may be called mother loaders if u can’t find it under MOLO x
Alisha Pomells ·
@hayleyf okay thanks hun. How's the t25 going? Have you tried it again since the last time? X
hayley fletcher·
I couldn’t do it the day after, I was so stiff! Done it a few times since but everyday is tough 😢
Alisha Pomells ·
@hayleyf yeah it's hard. Just take your time you will definitely see a difference x
hayley fletcher·
@mum2sky, doing some yoga inbetween as well, so fingers crossed x
Lindsey ·
That group is mad 😖
Alisha Pomells ·
@mamanow93 tell me about it
Alisha Pomells ·
@missashleyanne exactly. Of course some women will clash that's normal but some of the stuff I've read I'm like nah you guys can't be serious. I love the support women give on here x
Sara-Louise·
What I find annoying in Facebook groups is when someone has given advice or a comment to a question asked. Maybe it was a little abrupt or whatever but it's everyone who then responds to that person with such negativity and name calling. I think your actually just as bad as the person your moaning about! Lol
Sara-Louise·
Also I'm all for support but I also think we need truth and brutal honesty sometimes. Sugar coating things to make someone feel better doesn't always help either!
Alisha Pomells ·
@sara-lou86 I agree. I don't think fighting someone who's been truthful albeit negative with negativity and name calling makes sense. And I don't think sugar coating is right either but some of these women were being seriously extreme. Like a woman asked for advice on how to get her child down earlier than midnight and a lot of people jumped down her throat because her child sleeps till 9 but she just wanted advice about making it earlier not about the fact her child sleeps for 9 hours if that makes sense. It was just extra I felt so she deleted the post and people started calling her a cunt and stuff
Sara-Louise·
That's just silly. Why do people get so angry about how other people parent that they need to name call!? I mean I'm all for an early bedtime but I also know plenty of parents who's children go later lol So many angry self righteous people out there!
Alisha Pomells ·
@sara-lou86 no idea. I think they think it's funny when it's just petty. Exactly everyone parents differently as long as they aren't harming the child then let them get on with it. If they ask for your opinion then by all means share but she wanted advice not a bunch of like you said self righteous mum's calling her every name under the sun 😴