Anyone feel alone in there pregnancy? I'm currently 18 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend doesn't understand. He thinks I'm…

No I don't think you're wrong. I feel the same way. My boyfriend wanted to have a baby and he was trying to get me pregnant for a couple months and now that I am it's like he could care less half the time... I can't help but feel kinda used ya know? I mean I'm going through pregnancy again and my body is gonna be changing all over again and I just got it to where I wanted it to be... So I'm frustrated. We were at a baby store last night and he just cruised through the whole place without really looking at much and here I am looking at cute baby clothes and what not and he's just meh.

@skylersmommy11916, we weren't trying for a baby but it just happened and with my first child(different father) I just wanted when I got pregnant again for it to be enjoyable and feel like we're in this together but I just feel alone in this pregnancy as well. I want to be able to enjoy the experience but I don't know how to have him understand and try to make it less stressful.

@annerino4 I get it... The thing is, with my first pregnancy (also a different father) I didn't want to be pregnant and I didn't want to stay with him but he was into it and it was actually alright because I felt like we were a team after a while... But this time... Not so much. I told my boyfriend that my son's father actually got into the pregnancy and made me excited after a while and my boyfriend responded saying he wasn't really a man so that's why... He said real men don't get all gooshy over these things... I wanted to cry. That was probably my son's fathers best and only good quality..

@skylersmommy11916, I just want to feel like a team and that we're on the same page. See with my other babies father I wasn't into it either and he was all for it and against adoption and threatened me.but after the whole pregnancy wasn't there, cheating on me. And to this day hasn't spent one day with our child and haven't spoken in years and my son will be 6 in march. And my current boyfriend always said when we have kids it won't be like that and you will enjoy it and I will be there every step and doing it with you, and ever since we found out we were expecting none of that has happened and he's making it more stressful than it already is on me. But I feel if I say something it will cause a fight. I just wanted this pregnancy to be a good experience. And enjoy it every step of the way because with my first boy that experience was ruined

@annerino4 have you said anything to him about it yet? Maybe if you tried to calmly talk about it there won't be a fight... Idk how your boyfriend is but talking about it is worth a shot. I try to talk to mine about it and he just makes me feel stupid for bringing it up.... 😥

@skylersmommy11916, same here, he says I'm dramatic or he doesn't know how to help, or I'm crazy

i’m in the same exact boat 🙄 i’m dramatic i’m too moody he just doesn’t understand . my last pregnancy was with a different father and he was so into it i feel so alone and my mind races wondering what will happen when the baby comes

@victoriamichelle1418, agreed. My first baby daddy wasn't too into it and cheated on me the whole time behind my back, my current boyfriend and soon to be baby daddy said whenever we got pregnant things wouldn't be like my first one and that it's going to be enjoyable and he's going to do things different. Well I'm pregnant and it's the same, I feel alone, and he really hasn't understood the whole pregnancy thing and he thinks I'm just dramatic like a human isn't growing inside me.... just hoping things will be different when the baby comes

@sheribabyy, ik it’s so frustrating i feel like so alone everyday i’m praying it changes