Soooo, I got into it with my sister over me wanting another baby .. she hits me with that " how if…

If you wait to have a baby until you "Can afford" one, you'll never have one! Forreal!

@tayler hell yeah that's what I'm saying, plus she makes it out to seem like I can't handle 2 kids.. hello I baby sat 4 kids at once. Plus she's mean to my niece . She treats her very cruel..she acts like she's better than me , always has. She's planning another child when she herself can barely handle her daughter, when she's making minimum wage , unhappy at home , always bitching. Ughh

@caseyxo2017 sounds to me like she's jealous!! Go for It girl! Have another baby and show her ass you can do it! Family is there to help, me and my fiance both have jobs and we still need help here and there with things that's just life!

@raquely, Amen girl

@raquely Having a child costs thousands of dollars, that shouldn't hold you back from creating a family. Before I planned my pregnancy I was worried about affording another child until I realized if I kept worrying I would never have another child so i went for it, now I'm pregnant and everything works itself out!

@raquely Excuse me? I don't depend on the government. I don't even get link lol.. I'm saying you shouldn't be worried about affording a child. If you have a home and income that is enough.

@raquely oh yeah definitely , but I'm sure she meant like you'll never be prepared for a child :) like money wise but yes I agree @tayler she's always hated me tho

@raquely, If I didn’t think about affording kids I’d already have about 5 lol. But it pisses me off when people have babies when they know they can’t afford it then guess what happens? The child suffers from it!

@caseyxo2017 Exactly. & don't pay her any mind! Do what makes you happy girl!!

@raquely Obviously you took my comment the wrong way. But take it how you want!

@tayler, That is not enough... and for you to think that way is kind of messed up. Before I had my kid I made sure she would have the nicest things a roof over her head food on the table (without asking for help) I didn’t want to just settle for what I could get by with. But that’s just my opinion!

@raquely I'm not lol

@sunkissedsweetheart Yup that's just your opinion!

@raquely, same here girl mine is 2 years old and having another hasn’t even crossed my mind bc financially I can’t afford it right now

@tayler, if you fee good about letting your kids just get by with what they can get then wow

@sunkissedsweetheart Lol girl you don't even know me. I work, my fiance works and we own our place that we just bought in August. You ladies clearly took my comment the wrong way.

😔 aww, guys . I don't wanna see y'all argue :(

@tayler, my whole point is if you know dam well you can’t afford kids why the hell have them?! Bc the baby suffers in the end!

@raquely, Amen!

I don't want another baby till my son's 6 years old rn I can afford to buy things for my child that I never had but there's times where I pay my bills and don't have shit left so I ask for help

@caseyxo2017 Sorry girl never meant to be attacked on your post. I'm not feeding into it any longer. Obviously my comment was taken the wrong way. Anyway, wish you luck with your sis and family! If you want another baby go for it A

:( sorry if I made people argue this is the last thing I wanted