It sucks being a single mother when I’m living with and “sleeping with” my baby daddy. We’re.....together I guess. But I…
It sucks being a single mother when I’m living with and “sleeping with” my baby daddy. We’re.....together I guess. But I can’t even get him to help me stay off my severely sprained toe. ): we live in a two story house, so stairs are a struggle when I fix meals for me or my daughter. And as of right now, we’re all playing musical rooms and trying to get ready for Christmas so there’s little to no room, and I have to bring food upstairs to eat.
He doesn’t talk to me, never tells me when he’s leaving or where he’s going (I’ll ask him to get our 3 yr old some juice, and when I get no response I go downstairs to find he’s gone and been gone for over an hour). I sent him a picture of my boobs on Snapchat yesterday. And I told him I did. He hasn’t viewed it. At all.
I’m really pregnant. And have a severely sprained toe from taking a spill down the stairs. But yet I managed to rearrange the room (moving a giant couch and multiple dressers), get the car seat unboxed after dragging it out of the closet and getting my hurt toe smashed, get the bassinet set up, all the while taking care of a bratty 14 yr old that’s stuck in my 3 yr old’s body.
I can’t take his depression anymore. His mom keeps threatening to kick him out. But she won’t. ):
Nickel ·
Мама сына (2 года)
I think you need to leave and start your own life, sadly you can’t force someone to have feelings for you or want to actually step up and be with you. You’re depression will only get worse while you force yourself to live and be with this man. You can’t depend on him, clearly. So it seems it’s time to do things on your own! We don’t need men to be successful! You can do it!
danielle@barton·
I agree. I think it’s time to go your separate way because it doesn’t sound like he appreciates you.
Brianne·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)
@mommyof1boyy, I have absolutely no doubt I can do it. I’ve got plans and goals that have practically nothing to do with him. But I have no where else to go. Luckily for me, no matter what happens with us, his mom would not make me leave cause she knows I have no where else to go. I’m more willing to help out than he is. I was the only one working (besides his mom) up until I took a spill down the stairs.
Things are gonna work out with me starting school in January. It’s just really depressing how he sits by and watches me struggle in such horrible pain and he doesn’t even care. ): his depression is out of control. He lost his grandmother 3 days before our daughter turned 3. He’s not dealing well. ): and I want so bad to hang on for him. I mean if it doesn’t work out, it doesn’t work out. But I’m the only one who is encouraging him and trying to stay on him about making GOOD decisions.
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@brianne many prayers for you! It's a hard position to be and it's easy for everyone else to say what they would do, but when you're actually going through it, the decision doesn't seem to easy to make. Keep your chin up. everything works out for the best in the end. :)