I really hate working late... Whenever I have to work until 930pm I never get home until about 11pm…

I really hate working late... Whenever I have to work until 930pm I never get home until about 11pm since I have to go out of my way to pick up my son from my mom's... by the time I get home my boyfriend is already asleep half the time and I can't spend any time with him since he works all day... When I get home from work I can't ever go to sleep right away because I need to eat dinner and get my son ready for bed and take care of everything else that needs to be taken care of before bed because my boyfriend doesn't do much other than make more of a mess.... 🙄 He gets home at 530 and does nothing most the time and just leaves food and dishes around and soda cans. Doesn't feed the cats and the litter boxes are over due to be cleaned because I can't do it now because of the ammonia. His excuse is because he's so tired from work, well I'm tired too! I'm a full time mom all day then I drive an hour and a half to work and constantly clean and take care of customers then and hour and a half home and still be a full time mom all while being pregnant and getting over the flu... I really feel like my efforts are taken for granted a lot.... 😒