Kinda pissed right now! I finally start the bleaching process so I can color my hair the color my…

Kinda pissed right now! I finally start the bleaching process so I can color my hair the color my boyfriend picked out and all I get is cap about coloring it basically while he's at work and he was afraid I was around our baby with the color in my hair... like really this is my third child you really think I would be around him with chemicals in my hair... ugh.. makes me so mad and frankly upset makes me feel like I'm a bad mom and I didn't even do anything wrong