My bf got drunk, wrecked the car and went to jail. He had to spend $800 to get out of jail and to…

My bf got drunk, wrecked the car and went to jail. He had to spend $800 to get out of jail and to get his car out the tow yard and then towed to the house because it’s inoperable 😒😔

All I keep thinking is what if he had killed someone? What if he had killed him self? How would I explain that to my baby when she’s older?