Hey guys really need some advice or opinion or what your thoughts are on things. I have a couple things that I need to vent about and see what you guys think. So my boyfriend has been acting really weird, usually everyday he harasses me all day long telling me how sexy I am and he always wants sex from me and all this and that, and past 3 days he hasn't shown any interest in me at all so now I've been testing him. I'm putting on his favorite undies that he usually can't resist and other slutty clothes he can't resist, and nothing.. So I noticed that he has a bottle of lotion right next to the toilet in the bathroom, and I'm like "That fuckers jerking off in here" and he's in there several times a day for long periods.. so I confronted him about it and he lied at first, then he admitted it and said "I'm sorry, I won't do it again" so then I saw his history on Chrome and there's a shit ton of porn sites that he's been visiting for days now. So now I've come up with an idea, I've been setting the bottle of lotion in certain positions or move it a certain way so I'll be able to see if it's been moved, and sure enough I hadit a certain way and I go in there when he's done and it's put in a different spot or position than I had it. So he's not even trying to have sex with me he's just immediately going in there watching porn and jerking off so I don't know what the hell's going on he keeps on asking me what's wrong what's wrong I just told him something weird is going on here and he gets all defensive and everything else I don't know he says he only wants me and if he does he watches videos that we made last year but then he slipped and told me he erased them last year so they're not on his phone he has no video of me so he's on PornHub several times a day.. What do you guys think? I can't take any more bs.
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He probably can't put u in the positions y'all use to do. Or out of respect for u.instead of waking u in the middle of the nite.....or bothering u with sex knowing u are close to the end of pregnancy he jus takes care of his self.its not like he cheating on u.he only jacking off.
my husband is a sex addict he did the same thing and ended up getting distant with me and looking for more and he lied about it constantly as well even if he never gets interested in other woman it’s not ok for him to lie to you about that kind of stuff but you have to give him a safe space to tell you like don’t yell at him just say how you feel and tell him if he feels like doing it to talk to you and you guys can make some of your own or go buy a new toy normally if they are looking at porn it’s because they aren’t getting something they want so ask him what he wants sexually maybe he wants to try some new weird positions or something but he shouldn’t make you feel like you’re not sexy to him and ignoring you in the sexual manner I promise you just talk to him and take care of it idk why people say men are just men let them watch porn ok whatever once in a while eh ok but what he’s doing no don’t let that be a normal
But honestly, it makes me feel like I'm being cheated on for some reason. And he told me a couple years ago he had a porn addiction but he wasn't anymore..
Thanks guy's! OMG I was just thinking of putting mayonnaise in it!! I wonder if he would even say anything to me about it LOL
Its just in his mind..his thoughts..which isnt good....but it soon will past soon..plus u never had any issues with him cheating on u b4...so u good
Yeppppp at least hes not cheating on u with an actual girl in real life
Omgoshhh....well every relationship has their trails..i been married for ten years...honey the marriages over the years for ppl gets tougher especially in America...they promote ppl to not have serouis one on one relationsships...gotta pray and believe he will sstop....its probably bc u r pregnant so hes feeling some type of way. And jerking off ..you have spirits enter insde u each time u do. Do some research on it and deep reading info and show him the info...send him a email or textz about the wroug ness of doing that daily...
In the beginning of my pregnancy I wanted sex like all the time but later on I stopped wanting it and I noticed little things like that. Then he told me he did it to porn and do it in the shower. It bothered me at first but then I got over it because I realized that he is a guy and at least he isnt cheating on me and sticking it in another female. I've learned to accept it because I haven't wanted sex in awhile because I don't have the sex drive anymore. The first time we finally had it was a couple days ago and then I got back to not wanting it anymore so yeah I accept him doing it when I'm not around.
@fallenwarrior80963 Thankyou, that helps. I just find it wierd that he isn't responding to me dressing up for him and I put stuff on that he couldn't resist anymore. He used to annoy me because he'd never leave me alone, he wanted sex constantly and out of nowhere he acts like I'm not there, and he hasn't even tried to have sex with me, it's very unusual behavior for him.. He still tells me I'm sexy and beautiful, but now all of a sudden he just goes in the bathroom and takes care of himself.. idk what to think..