Just venting. Not needing advice but need to vent a little. I’m getting so sexually frustrated. He…
Just venting. Not needing advice but need to vent a little. I’m getting so sexually frustrated. He finds some excuse during the week to not and it’s a hit and miss on the weekends. Got some on Sunday morning and dry since. Apparently he had a kinky dream last night and half assed an attempt but was unsuccessful since I just started to wake up when he gave up. So I figured he’d still be somewhat ready tonight. No. He is now in a grumpy mood from things going on and we have friends visiting for the weekend so I know I won’t get any while they are here. We work the same hours but the next 2 weeks he will be training the night members on something new to them and my hours stay the same (I can’t change my hours because of my position). So it is looking like it will be close to a month until this momma gets any because he get cranky on night shift and it tends to carry into the weekends. Just grrrrrr. I’ve always had a healthy sex drive and baby hormones are not helping it. Neither is this
Emily A·
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And things weren’t so bad in bed before baby (I am not blaming baby at all)
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If your belly is popped out he might be scared and not know how to express it.
Janet M·
Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
You could make him watch you in any way you like tell him hr can't touch just watch and see how he likes that. He could be ashamed that he got inturupted. Your strong momma you will find away around it.
Emily A·
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@jskidsmom, I know that’s part of it and since we are having a girl too, but when there is a lot going on he doesn’t get in the mood easy. And work has him doing something new that has him coming home tired and sore since he isn’t used to it. That doesn’t bother me except that it doesn’t seam to bother him until he lays down at night. Any time I approach him about sex then it seams like a huge blow to his ego and then it’s even longer until he snaps out of it
Emily A·
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@mrsgonzalez2018_2u, he’s told me some of his fantasies and I’ve done some like him watching me self satisfy but he doesn’t join in like he claims he’d like to. Anymore I basically have to wait until he is in the mood to get any. He has ADD and a common thing that is found with people with ADD is low sex drive. I’m not sure if his pills help that either. But I can tell when he forgot his pills so he is better on his pills. About the only things that I think would suddenly get him going are out of my comfort zone and he understands that