So pissed and irritated because sometimes I feel like I do everything!! It’s been a lonely week and…
So pissed and irritated because sometimes I feel like I do everything!! It’s been a lonely week and it gets to me. All hubby has done for the last 4 days is work and sleep. We have barely even seen each other. Meanwhile I work TWO jobs, wash clothes, do dishes, clean, do the shopping, make sure bills are paid, cook etc. I just would just love to fucking just work and sleep but life doesn’t give a rats ass. Part of it is I don’t ask for help...but only because I shouldn’t have to! If this keeps up I’m going on strike. See how easy he thinks I have it then 😡
Courtney·
Мама дочки-младенца
Idk what goes through men's minds. Maybe they think we like doing house work or maybe they think we enjoy cooking. I'm not sure, but I would definitely tell him what's going on and I would ask for help. I know my husband doesn't pick up on hints very well and i swear he doesn't see a mess right in front of his face, so I have to be direct and tell him what to do and when or I would be stewing in how much he doesn't do and it would piss me off.
CAS·
@princessrose, I’ve expressed multiple times that I hate cooking and hate doing everything by myself and she shrugs it off saying he needs his sleep for third shift. I’m truly convinced he would die or be homeless without me 🙄 but maybe I need to be even more direct and be a Dick even though I don’t want to be. But I’ve tried the nice way seriously if he wants to act like a roommate then I’ll treat him like one and just take care of myself and my stuff
Courtney·
Мама дочки-младенца
@bebefever94, yes, I would say if you've had the conversation before, kick him in the nuts and take care of just yourself. Lol.
CAS·
@princessrose, just think he needs a taste of his own medicine and reality