Just had a argument with my fiance about him possibly getting a vasectomy because this is my first…
Just had a argument with my fiance about him possibly getting a vasectomy because this is my first month off of birth control so the medicine is still coming out of my system. So as of right now I'm still on my cycle he doesn't want to use condoms and I don't want to be on birth control anymore so I just made a suggestion I'm getting a vasectomy says he said that he doesn't want to have any more children. In the way I've been feeling lately I don't want to have any children right now. So then he switches up he doesn't want a vasectomy because he may want to have another child later on. so I asked him how will we prevent pregnancy you don't want to wear condoms I just want to go natural but all he can say is go ahead and get off of birth control that's it,but that's not going to stop me from getting pregnant. so basically I left the conversation confused as hell lol smh why are men so difficult
Allyson Almeda·
Vasectomies can be reversed eventually... If that's any help.
DestiniTiara·
Мама троих детей
@skylersmommy11916 see I don't even know that but I will be bringing that up to him thank u
Marilu·
@skylersmommy11916, @theirmommytiara, my ex husband got a vasectomy in 2004 after we had our son. He's remarried now and has it reversed and they have a 3 month old baby now.
My husband now won't get one. I said I was getting my tubes tied and he said he just wants the option to have kids later because he wants more. What if my tubes are tied tho?? Where's he's getting a baby at? lol it's a disagreement between us. Is much easier for a man to have one than a woman to have her tubes tied.
Allyson Almeda·
@morganmommy79 men are just so afraid of pointy objects anywhere near that region haha meanwhile some woman have to have csections and episiotomies with no say in the matter at times.
Stephanie Valentine·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (40 нед.)
He could always store semen too if there is a chance you guys would want another. Once my daughter gets here my husband is getting snipped and we are done having children. I was going to get my tubes tied but my Dr won't do it because I'm so young and the regret rate is so high but if I could I would. This body is done making babies.
DestiniTiara·
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@morganmommy79 I say that too I'm going to get my tubes tied or I'm going to get a hysterectomy and he act like the world is going to end when I say that. But you don't want to have any babies so what the hell am I supposed to do and he never can answer the question lol
DestiniTiara·
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@meetthevalentines2017 he said I make it sound like he's a dog when I say once you get a vasectomy I'm not a dog I don't want to get snipped lol I honestly thought about getting my tubes tied because I had three but I know in my heart eventually I'm going to want another one. So he says oh you want me to get a vasectomy then you're going to find somebody else to have another baby with later on smh
Marilu·
@theirmommytiara, exactly lol!!
Marilu·
@skylersmommy11916, haha! Not to mention bloodwork all through the 9 months.