I hate when your trying to help someone out of a bad situation and all she does it talk to my…

I hate when your trying to help someone out of a bad situation and all she does it talk to my husband more than me than you bring it up or ask if you did something wrong and all they can say is no and I'm sorry. Like really. But you have a lot to say to him. I ask you how your kid is you see it and say nothing that's bull shit I'm sick of her games and my husband wonders why I'm so insecure when it comes to her like really she talks to you way more than she's talked to me in the last week. Even if it's just it ask for money cuz that's all she seems to do is heads up for his money. I'm ranting and raving about this I'm talk to him about it I don't like wind enough when's enough and he's like oh well I don't know we're going to try and go see her for Christmas and if she doesn't get in the truck with us then I'm done. Like really you agree with what I'm saying that she's got to be using us because that's the only time she hit us up and then you tell her that you're going through Texas where she's going to be at and you want to swoop her up and her daughter like really you know she's not going to get on the truck you know she's going to make every f****** excuse unless you have money for her. I'm sorry ladies you guys are the only ones that I can vent to I vent to him and he's like Oh no you're being insecure you're being insecure like really you don't want me to be insecure but yet she's making me this way and so are you but Its all me. Idk. I'm so sick of her.