when i first started my second job i absolutely loved it.. now not so much. its at a private…

It frustrates me that they would give these kids the impression that they can treat anyone like they are less than for any reason. Especially a reason as ridiculous as being unmarried and pregnant. Its sad that they aren't taught to spread love and kindness having empathy and compassion for all human beings.

I think a lot more unmarried couples are having babies. We're not married, and he was definitely planned. My cousin wasn't married. My friend wasn't married. A lot more people, especially in our generation, don't really see the need or the attraction of legal marriage.

It really sucks that the kids at work are saying that to you, though. What happened to 'treat people like you want to be treated'? And really, their parents are, if they pay any attention to the world we live in, fully aware that marriage isn't for everyone, and that it doesn't always come before babies.

@believeinbuddha, most of these kid’s parents are very active in the church & i fr think the parents are super judge mental & make their kids the same exact way. maybe bc they don’t want their kids being unmarried & pregnant? idk. i just think it’s funny that the kids don’t even know some of their classmates have unmarried parents or even divorced parents but don’t judge them at all.

@nomli, unfortunately that’s not how most of these kids are being raised 😒 it’s definitely frustrating especially knowing a lot of their classmates parents aren’t even married or even divorced. i blame the parents for making their children so judgmental 😠

@mamaprince me 2

Let me tell you something... they are not winning if they think they are better then you. Because if you believe in God you won’t criticize your brother or sister if your brother or sister gets off the right path (Biblical) we are suppose to help them get back on it. If the people think they are better they’re wrong because only God can judge you. The parents probably think they’re saved or sin-free because they participate in the church. Your relationship with God isn’t about how much money you donate or even all the people you help ( which all of that is good) but it’s about your obedience to him and having a heart like him and for him.That’s why I believe most people IN the church not even the pastor but the people in the church are leading a lot of people who really want to seek God astray because they judge them. I try to seek God prob not as much but I have been trying & I’m not perfect but I know that a woman or man of God would be nice and kind to you not criticizing you from behind.. if anything those people there are even worst sinners and think they’re better when in fact they are the worst.

First your old enough to have a child.No one is perfect just because your not married doesn't mean it won't happen if this is a church school what do they teach these children ? God doesn't judge he loves even if you are not walking the perfect way of how it should be that is not even an issue everything happens the way it is supposed to happen a child is always a blessing if the older teachers don't even tell the students of God's Grace,salvation and never ending Love then they should shut that school down.

@arien, @verguinia, it’s sad when the kids talk about me they’ll say “yeah, she’s pregnant” with a disgusted face like i’m not allowed to reproduce because i’m not married and i’m only 21 and i think it’s so sad they’ve been raised like that. It needs to be pound into their brains that only God can judge & that they should love one another despite whatever sins they’ve sin & leave it at that. I am most certainly old enough to have a child they just don’t see it that way therefore judge me 🙃 i feel stupid for letting some middle schoolers get to me it’s just discouraging because i know a lot of the reason why they feel this way is because they’ve gone home to their parents and told them their new teacher is pregnant and not married (they all assumed because of my age) and their parents said something negative about me. oh well

@kartersmommyy, girl don’t worry. I’m pregnant and I’m 19 I committed a sin (I believe in God) I apologized for my sin, but my life doesn’t end there.

Idc wha people have to say about me because they ani’t me and people are so quick to talk and give there Unasked opinions.

I could care less Tbh. I only really care for is my mom&dad opinions that is it.

Not my family nor friends... people are so quick to say stuff when they don’t even play a part of your life. Go to work I know it’s annoying (I’ve been through a situation like that) but just pray to God and that’s it.

Don't let them get to you I'm sure when they get older they will most likely be starting to think on thier own without thier parents brains and think back and say you know what I was wrong.

I'm pregnant and not married to the guy too but I am married to my daughter father who abandoned us when I was pregnant haven't seen him and can't divorce without his signature or address which I don't have but I chose to move on and find a nice guy I pray and know God will find a way to divorce me and I go to church every Wed everyone knows my story but I don't let that bother me I'm a worship leader I sing in the praise team and praise God because after all we are children of God he loves us no matter what situation we are in he will make a way one day everything will be in the right place as long as your heart is in the right place with God and love and knowing positive things will come a blessing is happening inside of you as we speak