I just want to know if I’m overreacting moms plz let me know and be honest.

She could just be hurt that you chose someone else for your second child.. I would give it more time and maybe she'll come around. But if she keeps being hateful you don't have to put up with it. Also I wouldn't worry about the car seat thing because honestly its not her responsibility because its not her child.

@hazelnautumnsmomma125, that’s exactly how I feel about the car seat it just hurt the fact she threw it in my face cause she did for my son and it’s like she was sorta bragging about it and as for another chance this is her 3rd time doing this and I’m tired of making excuses for her but your right I’ll give it another shot

Well @kimmommyof2angels I think when someone acts like that its childish , But she is mad because you didnt allow her who is there to be the god mother again which hurt her .I think you both should talk it out. If she can't understand your reasons and be there for you for the god child she already has then I'd say just leave it be.

The purpose of a godmother is for said godmother to lead it the child down a path of godliness. Doesn’t sound like she’s too kind. 🤔

@kimmommyof2angels well if its become a pattern for her, you just need to think about it like is yalls friendship worth it to keep going through this kinda stuff especially while pregnant? Just keep you and your kids first and keep positivity around yall💕

@michelledorant0807, I have tried talking to her but she keeps on repeating herself on the fact that the other person doesn’t live here, and I should apologize and let the other person know they aren’t the godmother.

@hazelnautumnsmomma125, I love my friendship with her I just don’t want to hurt my son when he eventually starts asking for her and I can’t explain why because she’s “angry”

@jennatess, that’s true

@kimmommyof2angels well if she tries to contact you again maybe ask her to lunch so yall can talk. And explain that to her. And if she is still rude and doesn't understand then maybe don't force a friendship. Your son is still young enough that he may not ask for her later on if she's not around anymore but I would at least try to talk it out and stay friends.

@hazelnautumnsmomma125, okay I’ll try the lunch date thank you I appreciate it

In my opinion there should only be one godmother....

@kimmommyof2angels well she's just hurt but I'd tell her your choice is final and if she can't handle that then don't waste time her cause if she really cares she'd respect your wishes.

@michelledorant0807, well said

@blessedmama__, that’s my opinion to I just can’t have her be the second godmother of my second child cause of what she does with the first one if I would’ve known her priorities is out of wack and she would act this childish or “petty” as she would say I would’ve never let it happen

@kimmommyof2angels, Yea it’s kinda shitty she’s acting that way , she’s not showing she’s godmother material.

@blessedmama__, I guess I’m expecting to much of her as a godmother I don’t know what I’m doing wrong

@kimmommyof2angels Yw I hope it all works out for you💕💕

@hazelnautumnsmomma125, thank you again I hope it works out to

@kimmommyof2angels, your not expecting to much girl