My mom seems to hate me she always tried to ruin relationships or just treat me bad all together smh…

My mom seems to hate me she always tried to ruin relationships or just treat me bad all together smh she went to my husband the other day and was telling him he should leave because two of my sons have adhd and she was just trying to be evil this went on for years of her mistreating me and getting my siblings to do the same just the other day one of the kids took my brother soda which wasn’t right but he flipped out saying he hates me and my kids he lied said the clear Pepsi was $25 to $50 dollars because they was limited edition i looked on eBay it’s $3 lol but he broke my tv i didn’t make a big deal his son pulled shampoo in my cable box i didn’t make a big deal I’m confused these people attack me all the time I’m at the point when we move I’m never coming back around i can no longer deal with them. I’m thankful for a place to stay because my neighbors house burned down and it burnt mine but i wish i never came back here they are driving me , my husband and kids crazy smh am i wrong for wanting to stay away?