Being a mom today is full of pressure. Pressure to parent in a way that pleases everyone. Pressure to get holiday pictures done and have big birthday parties because that's what everyone else does. Pressure to discipline your child, at the same time get pressure to not discipline your child. Can't we as mothers get on each others teams instead of tearing them down because their different? As long as our goal is to love & take care of our children, there shouldn't be anything to judge! I want to look back and say I spent my time involved with my babies, and not worrying about everyone else's.