Hey mom's how's it going. Question does anyone's else's oldest kid act up while even when you…

Hey mom's how's it going. Question does anyone's else's oldest kid act up while even when you discipline them cause mine wouldn't listen to her grandmother when she told her to come in and she ran off and arguing with her and when she yelled at her to get back in she put her in time out after tune out she started to yell at her about the ice cream and then got her butt busted. So my question is what's going on and what do you do ugh I'm getting very fustrated with her. But I think it's her showing her jelaousness and she says she's not but we think she us and we all show her attention. So I don't know what's going on with her.