Carrying a boy is WAY different then carrying a girl. That is for me I'm not sure about the rest of you. But I was spoiled with my 1st. I did all natural with her no meds and 4 to 5 hrs of labor. With my 2nd my son was 2.5 pounds more and I got induced with him. I'm stiff finding it hard to loose the weight. I would love to start a weight loss group. The after child birth weight loss group.