Okay ladies need your opinion. So my husband said we meeting me and my husband should be the only…
Okay ladies need your opinion. So my husband said we meeting me and my husband should be the only one to discipline our girls when they are bad but a pop on the hand is okay (by our family)but shouldn't really be done. I am like no if my girls are being bad and I am not there or did not see what happened my family or his only immediate family like his mom and dad my mom or sisters can. How do yall feel about family being able to put your kids in time out or spanking them when they are not listening or acting bad at their house? I am all for it my husband is not. I have told my family to and they still ask me or don't like to or video my daughter. I aslo see it as she will do it and know I won't get in to trouble in till they tell my mom so I can keep getting away with it.
Lovemyminime·
I only let my mom pop my sons leg or hand when he does something bad. Anybody else family or not isn't going to touch him.
Lauren🖤·
My mom and sister are the only ones that spank autumn besides my hubby or I. I wouldn't want his family to but I don't get along with them well. And if my dad did I wouldn't mind but he won't because that's his only granddaughter😂
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@lovemyson215 I understand that I am only allowing my mom or sister that we see every day and know how I parent my girls. They put my daughter in time out more then anything because they know she listen to more and hates timeouts. But my husband still say that only we should do that.
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@hazelnautumnsmomma125 my husband told his parents not to and they probably what time because we don't really see him that often anyways but if she were to go up there to spend time with them without us and gets in trouble they wouldn't be able to discipline her until we would get there. That what I don't like I feel like they should be able to. My mom and sisters can't and won't they they feel bad doing it they threatened her more than anything. But I have told them they can if they need to if I am not there.
Lauren🖤·
@lillynellasmom yea I think certain people should be able to as long as you're comfortable with it. I'd probably slap my in laws if they tried to though😂
Lovemyminime·
@lillynellasmom I mean as long as their in your mom or sister's care they should have some discipline while you're away. I spank my 4 year old nephew. I don't care if my sis doesn't like it cause her son is mean to my son everyday lol
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@hazelnautumnsmomma125 lmao that was to funny but I can understand that.
Lauren🖤·
@lillynellasmom I just don't trust their judgment on what she should be disciplined for or not.
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@lovemyson215 yes when she is at there house I see it as there house there rules you don't listen then they have a right to discipline her when I'm not there and he doesn't think so he thinks that they should wait and tell us and then we should discipline her. If that makes any sense.
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@hazelnautumnsmomma125 I know my family and his know very well how I am raising my kids and that they are not just going to do it for stupid things and they know that when we are at there house they are going to listen to the rules of there house they are a little different then ours but pretty much the same and she know what right and wrong.
Lauren🖤·
@lillynellasmom I may feel differently when autumns older but she's almost never at my in laws except for holidays and only sees them like every 3 months or so. So she doesn't even know them that well.