Went to bed upset last night. Why does he make me feel like shit when I don't wanna have sex? My…
Went to bed upset last night. Why does he make me feel like shit when I don't wanna have sex? My words were simply I don't feel like having sex tonight and he said of course not...it's not like we have a really bad sex life! So why does he always gotta say something. I think he's forgot the meaning of sex! 😠 he didn't even know I was upset...I guess we having a convo on his way to work this morning!
Kenya Larissa D. 🎀·
ive had this problem with my husband because we had the same issue, what he told me was that he just doesnt like for me to reject him, maybe just try to make him feel more wanted guys sometimes want to be smothered with love too but just sometimes asking for sex is there way to show it!
Emily·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I swear men think as soon as we are cleared we are ready to go back to normal 😣🙄 so frustrating
Summer Dehart·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@babeylarissa I know that's probably it. I mean we've had really great sex like 3 times this week TMI sorry lol but in my head I'm like okay I've gave you all I got this week and in his head he's like I want more. Men just think so different then us women. But I know that's what it is I just wish he wasn't such a smart ass about it!
Summer Dehart·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@ecahanes exactly I mean damn I just shoved a watermelon out of my shit give me some time!
Kenya Larissa D. 🎀·
@carolina_mamma, have a serious talk with him. im telling u for some reason me and my husband had a little phase like this where i was like man we’ve done it like 2 or 3 times this week already thats enough but when we talked & explained in his way i actually realized i was rejecting him & making him feel unwanted have of the time because i put all my attention to the baby now. maybe ur just not realizing how ur being now that u have a new baby & u guys just have to talk it out. ur relationship matters to u know.
Summer Dehart·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@babeylarissa thanks! Yeah I'm going to have a talk because here lately it's like that's all he wants and nothing else so there's something going on!
Buddhist Mama·
My man is the same way. When we go a few days without sex he loses it and we start fighting until one of us gives in