Getting ready for Thanksgiving. First time in years I'll be spending it with family. But not for a…

Getting ready for Thanksgiving. First time in years I'll be spending it with family. But not for a good reason though. I lost my grandmother on Halloween, and we're doing a celebration of life thing for her at Thanksgiving. Don't ask why it's a month later unless you're ready to read a VERY long rant. I'm going to have to give a speech about my grandma's life, it's supposed to be Happy/funny. I'm also in charge of making the desert, so I've been baking for days. And I get to drive all the way to FL with 5 cakes, 2trays full of macaroons, and 3 kids. 😢😢I just want this to be over.