Ok ladies I have a question. Ok let me start off by saying I'm bisexual and the woman I'm talking…

Um first off, he needs to cut that bitch off. I get he wants to help her and that's so sweet of him but YOUR family comes first. He cannot tell you to buy things for her when your house needs things. The fact that he's sharing your problems with another woman, is completely wrong and shouldn't be happening because when it's marriage, it's YOUR guys' problem; not anyone else's. To me, it seems like she's using your husband for money. Yeah, her situation is sad but there are other people who can help her, not just your husband. I would have shut it down real quick if she started messaging just my husband and not myself. So yes. You have a right and you need to talk to him about this

@tiinii @scx327 ty ladies. I have talked to him about it and he just keeps telling man that if he wanted to be stolen then she would have a perfectly good chance but he doesn't want to be stolen so her trying to get him for herself isn't going to happen. You know her daughter sick and and she never told me what was wrong with her but my husband Noah and my husband pinky promised that he would send her $50 today okay we have two things that are still on the pawn shop that have to be paid that I had forgotten to pay yesterday because I was so worried about my dog who had gotten hit the day before that and I had to pay a fine on my ticket or I lose my driver's license which I just got so I had totally spaced it I had reminded him this morning that I had forgot to pay it and mind you I have all of his passwords to his kick his Facebook everything the only thing that I cannot see is his text messages and when she calls him what irritates me is knowing that he drives and knowing that I'm a stay-at-home mom she insist on messaging him even though when she used to message me and ask me for money or whatever the first thing I did was call my husband because I don't do anything without him knowing. Our marriage used to be we told each other everything and I mean everything but I have a feeling that he's not telling me everything and that's what is hurting me

She is clearly extorting you guys for money. I would stop helping her.... 😐

@tiinii I have told him multiple times that we needed to stop helping her because of her possibly using us. Then she hit him up out of the blue and tells her oh yeah I've been trying to do everything that I told you guys have been trying to do but with the hurricane that hit everything that I need has been moved from this place to this place to this place so I'm having a hard time getting my daughter's birth certificate and her social security card. I asked him I said why didn't she talk to me about it knowing that I was already up cleaning our house all the rest of it anyways. Then she had the nerve to ask if I was tweaking because I was up at 11 at night when I normally don't go to bed till 11:30 12:00 at night I like really well I need a good night picture I'm like okay you can have one and she's like no I need to see your eyes I'm like really you can't trust me to tell you the truth that I'm not tweaking I'm sorry my children are more important

@believeinbuddha that's what I'm thinking but when he makes the pinky promise to her that's all he does is I pinky promise that I'll send you money and give her an amount it's like really you can give her a $30 yes and that gets the baby Tylenol or Motrin if you get the generic brand especially at Walmart it's like three or four dollars for each plus them Pedialyte what more do you need

@tiinii nope he cant. I just want him to see where I'm coming from. I know that if I was a single mother and had nowhere to go and nothing in my name or anything and an old friend of mine and his wife was willing to help me and all of a sudden I get hit with their marital problems first thing I'm thinking is oh there's an opening and now all I got to do is play on it and I'll have him and she'll be out on the streets

And he says I'm the crazy one for how I'm thinking that it's my insecurities that are flying

@mommys4angels I just don't see why your husband or you are ok with helping a woman who you're no longer in a relationship with. I can tell you this for a fact: People use people when they know they can. This lady is obviously using your kindness to her advantage.

@tiinii I no men just think with their dicks. Yesterday he was telling me that I needed to start putting him first and our marriage because when he comes home my children are first and everything. I think that he needs to start putting me first as well

@believeinbuddha well you're right that I think she I think she is using us to her advantage because when we first started helping her it was the promise of once she fixed herself and she thought her issues taken care of that should be a permanent girlfriend in our lives. But the only time that she calls or messages us or anything is when s*** hit the fan for her or she needs money or whatever the case is she's having a bad day she wants to die because she's felt her daughter things like that my thing is is if she's wanting to be on girlfriend she needs to start communicating more you know the phone goes both ways you know she'll message me