This is what happens when you leave your hair up in a messy bun for probably about 3 weeks maybe…

If you can, go to a salon. Don't be embarrassed, just go, be proud that you're trying, and they can help your hair. I hope.

Try to leave in conditioner over night before attempting to comb again. I unfortunately encounter this a lot

If anything put some conditioner in it and finger detangle and then use a comb. If you’re able to go to a salon I would after and maybe ask for a deep condition for the after care.

On no 😣 just keep trying slowly to comb it out I've done that before too for 2 weeks and I have really curly thick wild hair and eventually I got it out after almost an hour and I lost a huge chunk of hair but it was worth it ! You can put some leave in conditioner or some almond or coconut oil to help it works great 🙌🏼

Girl you dont have to shave it if you dont want to. This has happened to me before. Use baby oil and comb from the bottom up be patient it will work💓

Put lots

Want to know my secret? I'm sitting here brushing my hair out from the same exact thing right now.......

I work 10 or more hours every day. More here lately since my husband got laid off. I go home and help tend to the kids, help with homework, and help get supper ready. Get kids in and out of bath and ready for bed. Clean the kitchen up from supper, shower, hair in messy bun and go to bed. Wake up in morning "straighten" messy bun and head to work so I can do it all over again.

Try a 1/3 apple cider vinegar, 2/3 water with a dollop of conditioner in a spray bottle shake it up. Spray on hair and comb from the bottom up. Get it into as small sections as u can. When transitioning from straight to my natural hair I neglected it at first and I’d get these horrible steel wool like matted patches and I came so close to shaving my hair so may times just weeping over broken combs but this mixture really helped

I went Thur the same thing I bought a hair mask showered shampoo and put the hair mask in my hair for about 5 mins washed it out and I finally got a brush Thur my hair after not brushing my hair for about a week this is the one I bought

This is my hair after two days in a bun. Make sure you brush it out in the shower. Put conditioner and let it soak, brush out, then rinse.

Take a nice hot shower and completely smother your hair in conditioner then take a brush and brush it while it’s slathered in the conditioner. Makes it 1000x easier and less painful. I’ve been where you’ve been, I’m sorry that you’re in that grey place and I really hope you’re able to find the color again❤️