Hello I am totally bran new to here, I just feel like I need some advice and a vent !!
Basically I am 21 I have a 3 year old and am currently 3 months pregnant to a current partner .I was living with my partner and things where all planned out but not for long where now split up most definitely for good .!!
I'm in a hard situation with things trying to get my self a house ect before the baby and living at my mums at the moment. My ex is an absolute idiot has called me for to burn, you name it. 😂
My mum has said its not to late to have a termination because he wants nothing to do with the baby either. I don't really want to do that as I've seen the scan and there isn't really no going back for me . I'm just looking for some advice has anyone done it or been in my situation?
Are things that as a single mum of 2 😊 xx
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Amazing hun, step by step you will build yourself up : ) makesure you have a good support network around you xx
Wish you a safe delivery, hopefully not long now and you're most welcome xx
That's definitely my aim now , getting my self back on track . I haven't heard of that but I will give it a go , thankyou !
Things will get easier I am hoping so just so desperate to have my own home again with my children and be settled for them cause being un stable is driving me mad the most . Thanks so much xxx
Hun, you're gorgeous!
Being a mum is hard as it is, reflect on how you have coped so far or something difficult you have overcome in your life..
I would suggest joining a mums group (if possible for single mums or young mums) so you would have women to relate to, for mutual support and inspiration. Could you search for any in your area? Or perhaps try mush if you haven't.
I can empathise with becoming a single mum being scary but it can be done!!
In the meantime you need to build up your mental strength for your little ones.
New year is soon approaching.. think of things you want for you and little ones in the near future, set yourself little goals to focus on and be positive about and take this time being single to build back up your confidence and know what you want for your next relationship..
I know it's only words but hope this helps xx
There's many mums on here who will or would have been in similar a situation to yourself, just post anytime you need to vent x
Hi sweetheart I've been in your situation twice and guess what? I'm now here for a third time! I can't half pick them 😩xx
Is he the father of your three year old? Xx
Yeah that doesn't bother me kind of a relief to be honest but when I am being told no one wants me cause am fat and pregnant and he has a new girlfriend 😂 in a matter of a week it's just confusing the life out of me on what I want xx
That's my plans to just get sorted and settled 🏡 thankyou I hope so xx
You need to be strong now for your two children, they need you. Go down to the council. You can do this xx
Thanks so much Hun this means a lot . Thankyou xx