Can some of you tell me your experience having a second child? Today while trying to help my niece with hw i realized how hard it is having 2 kids. So i just want to know what age do you recommend having a second one and what are the ups and downs?
We waited 4 years between our first and our second. Our thought process was that at 4, kids are becoming more independent and she wouldn’t need as much of my undivided attention. She was also old enough to go to half day preschool. But it also depends a lot on you and what kind of personality your oldest has. If you have a really easy going 1,2 or 3 year old, it might be a lot less stressful than you think.
I'm having Irish twins. My two boys are gonna be 11 and a half months apart. Honestly momma it's up to u I heard that it's stressful but it depends on how ur patients are
My two oldest are 3 years apart and I loved not having two in diapers or needing bottles at the same time. It was still hard because I had less time for my toddler when the baby arrived but that still holds true with any age. Babies require a lot of attention. But I also liked having more one on one too. I had 3 years with my oldest then My toddler started preschool and I had time with the baby.