@momofmonsters2 that's normal. That's how you can truly tell you're the best kind of mom there is, because of how much you care and how hard you are on yourself for not being perfect 😄
You're doing everything right. So give yourself a break hun!
@momofmonsters2 I agree with @believeinbuddha don't ever think your a bad mom. I raised 4 boys before having my DD. Sometimes I feel like I don't know what I'm doing and I've already done this multiple times. I know your boys love you and it looks to me like they are healthy, strong and well taken care of. Seems to me so far your nailing it as a mom!!!
@believeinbuddha thank you so much I needed to hear that hopefully my boys think I'm doing a good job for them finding a balance with them has been my biggest challenge
@momofmonsters2 your doing a fine job. Don't be to hard on yourself. We make mistakes as parents but the at doesn't mean we failed. We learn. Keep your head up we are all hear for you too. 😁
@mommiesaremagical14 thank you for the pep talk it was very uplifting ♡♡ I needed to hear that. Been in a funk lately thinking I wasn't doing things right & felt like I was being judge by family. But I would do anything for my boys they are all I got.
I highly doubt that. We may feel that way at times because parenting is hard. There's no book on it to truly tell you how to parent because there is no ONE way on how to do so. It's one of the hardest jobs we have, tp raise respectable young men and women who will flourish in this cruel world. Sometimes I feel as if I suck as a mom, like I'm too hard on her. Or some days, I'm agitated and feel like maybe I'm fussing at her for nothing. But then, I see just how much she loves me, how healthy she is and I know, I'm just being too hard on myself. Just like I'm sure, in your boys eyes, you are supermom. Stop beating yourself up. If they are clothed, fed, happy, and loved, no way you suck at being a mom.
@breloya I just feel horrible when my kid tells me mommy pick me up when I have the lil one trying to feed him and then trying to get my lil man to eat breakfast maybe that's why I doubt myself sometimes l wish I can clone myself so I won't feel so guilty . This is what motherhood is all about we just have to try and keep trying no matter how crappy a day could of been . Because our kids are here in our lives forever they depend and rely on us . That's why I kick myself in the butt if I forget to do something for either kid . Some ladies are ment to be Moms I just feel like a mom in training lol
There will be bad and there will be good days but I'm glad I have my boys they do bring light and without them I wouldn't know what it is to be a mom to have a challenge to have more patience then I ever could have . I'm just having a off day but it will get better as time goes on
We're all in training if you ask me, no matter if it's your first or your fifth. Every single child is different and what may have worked for the first child may not work for the second or third. We will always be learning new things when it comes to parenting. Getting overwhelmed or a little forgetful from time to time is normal. I don't care how perfect someone tries to portray their lives on social media, none of us are perfect parents.
Buddhist Mama·
No you don't! We are all just learning as we go. 💓
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@believeinbuddha thank you but some days I feel like I'm not doing a good job and I should be doing better
Buddhist Mama·
@momofmonsters2 that's normal. That's how you can truly tell you're the best kind of mom there is, because of how much you care and how hard you are on yourself for not being perfect 😄
You're doing everything right. So give yourself a break hun!
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@momofmonsters2 I agree with @believeinbuddha don't ever think your a bad mom. I raised 4 boys before having my DD. Sometimes I feel like I don't know what I'm doing and I've already done this multiple times. I know your boys love you and it looks to me like they are healthy, strong and well taken care of. Seems to me so far your nailing it as a mom!!!
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@momofmonsters2 I also agree with @believeinbuddha 100%!!
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@believeinbuddha thank you so much I needed to hear that hopefully my boys think I'm doing a good job for them finding a balance with them has been my biggest challenge
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@mommiesaremagical14 I hope I am . And your a strong momma for raising 4 I'm barley hanging on by 2 lol
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@momofmonsters2 your doing a fine job. Don't be to hard on yourself. We make mistakes as parents but the at doesn't mean we failed. We learn. Keep your head up we are all hear for you too. 😁
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@mommiesaremagical14 thank you for the pep talk it was very uplifting ♡♡ I needed to hear that. Been in a funk lately thinking I wasn't doing things right & felt like I was being judge by family. But I would do anything for my boys they are all I got.
Brea·
I highly doubt that. We may feel that way at times because parenting is hard. There's no book on it to truly tell you how to parent because there is no ONE way on how to do so. It's one of the hardest jobs we have, tp raise respectable young men and women who will flourish in this cruel world. Sometimes I feel as if I suck as a mom, like I'm too hard on her. Or some days, I'm agitated and feel like maybe I'm fussing at her for nothing. But then, I see just how much she loves me, how healthy she is and I know, I'm just being too hard on myself. Just like I'm sure, in your boys eyes, you are supermom. Stop beating yourself up. If they are clothed, fed, happy, and loved, no way you suck at being a mom.
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@breloya I just feel horrible when my kid tells me mommy pick me up when I have the lil one trying to feed him and then trying to get my lil man to eat breakfast maybe that's why I doubt myself sometimes l wish I can clone myself so I won't feel so guilty . This is what motherhood is all about we just have to try and keep trying no matter how crappy a day could of been . Because our kids are here in our lives forever they depend and rely on us . That's why I kick myself in the butt if I forget to do something for either kid . Some ladies are ment to be Moms I just feel like a mom in training lol
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@momofmonsters2 your welcome, the last thing I want as for another mother to feel like she is feeling at the most important/hardest job of her life.
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There will be bad and there will be good days but I'm glad I have my boys they do bring light and without them I wouldn't know what it is to be a mom to have a challenge to have more patience then I ever could have . I'm just having a off day but it will get better as time goes on
Brea·
We're all in training if you ask me, no matter if it's your first or your fifth. Every single child is different and what may have worked for the first child may not work for the second or third. We will always be learning new things when it comes to parenting. Getting overwhelmed or a little forgetful from time to time is normal. I don't care how perfect someone tries to portray their lives on social media, none of us are perfect parents.