Hi I'm Natalie Aguila and I just joined! I am 30 weeks pregnant but my husband and I didn't know I was pregnant until I was 20 weeks. We both are 20 years ago and go to college for degrees in biology. I work two full time jobs one at a library and another as a nursery while my husband holds down a full time job with 4 intense internships. This is our first child and know it's a little boy. This is the first boy on both sides of our family in at least 14 years and the first grand baby and great grand baby. Since we found out late we are overwhelmed with everything we have to do especially since we weren't expecting to have a child for at least another year or so.
@stanhopenatalie So what made you think you were pregnant? Did you start feeling kicks? I bet it feels like its going by fast lol your almost done. That is so funny he wanted a girl lol you dont hear a lot of guys actually wanting a girl for their first child. Being a parent is very challenging, but rewarding. I love being a mom more than I though I would. It is very nerve wracking especially when its your first. But it sounds like you guys got your heads on your shoulders, I think you both will be great.
@avyave, I feel like it's going by way to fast sometimes. I'm both excited and scared to be a new mommy so is my husband but he's been extremely supportive through everything. Although he was really wanting a girl and I the boy so he was shocked to hear he was having a son
@avyave, thank you. Actually I didn't suspect it at all it was my husband who noticed my body was changing in a few ways and my feet swelled easily. I kinda brushed it off for a bit because it was much and we had had taken so many tests early on in the pregnancy I felt there was no way I could've been pregnant but 3 home tests and 4 doctors visits later it was confirmed we were pregnant and 5 months along too.