Can you guys tell me if I'm crazy or not?
I'm not a social person, and don't have very many friends. The friends I do have, I don't talk to them or hangout with them regularly. I feel like that's pretty normal for being married and having kids.
My husband has a lot of friends, but pretty much all of them live out of state, where he grew up. His way of spending time with them is playing games online. He spends the large majority of his free time chatting with them on his headphones and gaming, after work and on weekends.
The very first thing he does on weekend mornings is wake up, and get right on the computer. This morning I asked him to please not play games first thing in the mornings. He said this the only time he could play with a particular friend, because that friend works nights and sleeps days. He asked what I would rather he do, and I said spend time with his family.
He obliged, but when he told his friend they both had that attitude like I was just being a nagging wife.
Am I crazy for thinking hanging out with your friends, whether in person or online, should be a couple of times a month thing, not every single day and weekend??