Need advice/vent....so my hubby decided to go hang out with this one friend that gets between our…
Need advice/vent....so my hubby decided to go hang out with this one friend that gets between our relationship really bad and convinces him to make bad decisions...well I asked him tonight don’t be out to late...it’s going on 4 in the morning and he is still at the bar! So I called the bar (cuz he won’t answer his phone) and this chick answered and I asked how many times for him and she finally asked if I Paige Kucas...I said yeah? And she goes oh you need to stop calling him honey that being crazy and he is ignoring you....I told that girl off and said put him on the phone that is my husband!! She shut her mouth right away handed him the phone...I told him he has 20 minutes to get home and he hasn’t even left....he said he was going out for Veterans Day....while I’m home....pissed off because one I been in the army longer then he has and I don’t get to go out second.....he is out till 4 in the freaking morning! Blowing up on him doesn’t work, talking normally to him doesn’t work, silent treatment doesn’t work...nothing works besides me letting him do whatever the heck he wants and he will be happy so I don’t know what to do to get him to understand that is not okay!! Also I want to tell him not to see this friends anymore because I am done with him! Period!!!
Paige Rue·
Мама сына (1 год)
@birdknees79, oh I know! He barely sees this friends and when he does this happens every single time! That’s why he doesn’t see him that often! Just starting to get annoying...especially when he gets to go out every weekend
Paige Rue·
Мама сына (1 год)
@birdknees79, worse part is it’s now 5:20am and he still isn’t here
Paige Rue·
Мама сына (1 год)
@birdknees79, if my son wasn’t sleeping I would of lol if you wake him up it’s like horrible! And I’m pretty sure I’m going to give him the option to pick me or his friend and go from there...he finally showed up drunk and said he was driving around so makes me even more pisses told him to freaking sleep on the couch and leave me alone
Mrs. G·
My husband is a veteran and all his co workers are pretty much veterans also but I would of kicked his ass he wouldn’t even been able to sleep on the couch straight floor like a dog. No married man should be out all night like that. And we have agreements on when drinking and coming home shit faced is unacceptable because my sons are going to learn that shit.
Proud Momma·
What I know for a fact is you grabbing your stuff, packing up and leaving him. It can take 2 weeks or 2 months but if he cares and really loves you & his kid I promise he will change. If he gives a two shit then he won't care.
Melissa·
My husband's best friend and him used go out like that. When we lived in the same apartment community, I'd wake up in the middle of the night to my husband gone out occasionally and they'd be at the bar across the street or my husband be at the convenience store his friend worked at on the night shift. However, if I called he answered. So I wouldn't worry. Now that we live in another city and his friend doesn't drive; problem solved. Occasional drinking with the two of them at our place; then I'll drive his friend home. But his friend thinks the world of me! Would never say anything bad.
I'd be beyond pissed in your situation.
Paige Rue·
Мама сына (1 год)
@birdknees79, hoping I will be 😂😂 so far I am he’s been kissing butt all day