This is one of those special occasions for us but I have noticed lube helps and also if your really really into the sex and relaxing your butt muscles.. I have used a small plug and I have to say it was really really pleasurable for both of us....
Sooo question, and I am not judging AT ALL. It’s a serious inquiry—- but clearly in this case the women gets no please out of it right? So the point is just the guy cause it’s a lot tighter..?
Correct me if I’m wrong, that’s why I’m asking!! Just curious. Lol
definitely try the shower, from experience the water helps A LOT and take it slow 😭 if you don’t want the shower just try to use lube & maybe let him use his fingers first.
@misscoco, like we have a couple times, but there’s always a long time frame in between so whenever it actually finally loosens up, it tightens right back up again due to time. And it just hurts so bad at first bc having a man with big junk is a blessing and a curse 🙄😩