I had my son two weeks before my fifteenth birthday. I was very, very young then and I personally…

My aunt felt the same way about her first son. She had him right before she turned 18 and she got pregnant again unexpectedly when he was 4. She says she still has a completely different and much stronger bond with her first son, but she still has her own special bonds with her 2nd and 3rd sons. You can tell she is more connected with him. It kind of scares me to have more than my son as well and he's not even here yet.

I said the same thing but once my 2nd was born I was in love and I thought how can I love both of them when my love for my first born was so great , but your heart makes room to love another and I'm happy my son has a brother he adores him very much . I'm glad I had him because I can't imagine my life without either of them . Btw I was scared af and thought I wouldn't even like my child sad to say but once you see their tiny innocent faces it's like a light and makes your heart glow and grow . My experience lol everyone is very different . And these thoughts are not wrong to have

@damiensmommy1117 thank you, I've heard a lot of people who say that about their first and second kids

@momofmonsters2 haha me too, but in all honesty I just don't feel as if I'm ready mom wise. I still make mistakes with my son. Like I spend my whole day trying to improve how I am as a mother.

@masonsmom0609 my sister had her first child exactly 1 month after she turned 15 her 2d at 18 3rd at 21 and 4th at 23. She loved all of them equally and they all knew it. I strongly believe you can have different bonds with each child but that doesn't mean you love any less.

Then dont girl.jus dont. God blessed u with wat u can handle.plus who wanna do labor again ugh

@masonsmom0609 I can so relate to this!! In my mind I'm like I'm a crappy mother but not every mother is perfect and as long as you try for your son that all that matters :)

I had my son 3 months after I turned 16 and it was hard but I wouldn't change it for anything. Then 3 years later I had my daughter a month after I turned 19

@masonsmom0609, sorry forgot to tag you in my post

@momofmonsters2 I just want to make sure before round to I can handle it. I see people with multiple kids and they seem so unhappy like constantly complaining.

@masonsmom0609 absolutely I agree with you when ever you feel the time is right to bring in another life then it's all up too you whatever makes you happy hun

I literally said this the other day. A mother told me when you have another child your love doesn't divide it multiplies.

@erikasmiles123 i know it doesn't for sister in laws who don't answer their phones 😠

@masonsmom0609 I'm so sick it's not even funny I have barely even been on my phone. It hurts my head to look at light.

I'm sick too hoe@erikasmiles123

@masonsmom0609 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@erikasmiles123 I've literally been so sick

@masonsmom0609 same. It hasn't even gotten better. Just worse.