I swear, after my daughter was born my husband and I nearly separated! We were under a lot of stress from lack of sleep, lack of time for ourselves and eachother. Having a baby come into your lives is a huge change and it's okay to kind of fumble a bit. No one is perfect and no relationship is perfect. Once my daughter was old enough for my mother to watch her we made it a point to go on dates with eachother and let the other go and do something for themselves. It's essential. I know that isn't always feesable with everyone's home situation but if you believe in your relationship then don't give up. Keep fighting. This too shall pass. My husband and I look back and are thankful we did not give up on our family. Now we have another little girl and this time around we are so much more prepared for the stress a newborn can bring.

Every relationship is different and can be very difficult after having a baby. Especially the first year. It’s a lot! Also if it’s both of your first! What’s making you not want to be with your baby dad?