I have a problem with my husband. Well today he was going to hit me and my son who is 2 saw the whole thing. Then yesterday i was busy doing something and i heard my son scream crying. I go and check and on him and on his back there is my husband hand print on my son back. Red as hell. It seems like when we moved to our new place 4 month's ago my husband get mad everyday. I don't know what to do. I have no friend here. my best friend live in Pennsylvania. I'm in Texas. My mom tell me to come home. To tell to the truth i don't have the courage to leave him I'm afraid what he will do to me and my son. Plus the worst part about this problem is that i found out I'm pregnant again. Found out today. What would you do ladies if you were in my shoes
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File for a restraining order and leave him, you have to protect your children. He would never win visitation rights in court because he has put hands on his son.
Oh the way you word it sounds like you was in abusive marriage now
@mommy2be26, I did leave I am remarried now and I’m glad I got out while I did cause his family knew and they covered everything up and made me feel like I was crazy
@athenamarie4115, why don’t you leave if u can Instead of staying
I’ve been in your shoes do you live in Tx or Pennsylvania
@ashley892 Good luck I hope nothing happens until then
@tibi2696 i did and it's like a block or less from my apartment. The shelter i didnt want that. So after thanksgiving I'm leaving with my mom because she is coming next Tuesday.
I was in an abusive marriage before my marriage now and it doesn’t get better and I didn’t want to leave him and we had no kids or anything they make you feel that way but you have to be strong for your son you don’t want him thinking it’s okay to treat women like that once you get out you will be glad you did trust me... be brave
Find a womens or crisis center I. your area, grab whatever money you can and take your son with you, explain your situation and that you can't go back home, and they should help you with a restraining order. There should also be a safe house for you to stay in where he can't find you. Since he hit your son yesterday is there a mark still? if so take pictures for proof and also save any message that are verbally or emotional abusive. You need to get out now before it gets worse. That's what they have available in Idaho so I hope they can help you like that in Texas as well.
If you don't leave it will only get worse and your child could end up dead because of him. Don't just think of yourself think of your child the reason you need to build courage and go back home and try to start over . I know it's hard girl but it's possible and that's all that matters think of your child's safety.
LEAVE. No man isn't going to abuse me and sure as hell not my son!!! He's showing all the signs of an abuser. Seriously slapping a 2 year olds back??? That's ridiculous. I would of had him locked up for that! Move while you still can.
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