Mommas. I have a problem. My SO is depressed. Here’s the problem: it’s new to the both of us. And by…

Mommas. I have a problem. My SO is depressed. Here’s the problem: it’s new to the both of us. And by that I mean, he went through something (as did we all but it hit him and his brother the hardest) and he’s never been through something so huge. (A death in the family.) He’s at that stage where he doesn’t care. About his hygiene. About me. About his kids. About stealing from everyone. He treats me and our 3 yr old like absolute shit and will borderline neglect her while I’m at work. (I say borderline cause he of course feeds her, etc but that’s about it.)

We’re all hoping that when our son is born something will change for him and it’ll give him some kind of motivation or something. /: anyone been through this? He’s never been depressed or had a history, and we’ve been together since 2013. This is the first for him. I’ve struggled with depression my whole life but have never been so close to someone who had the kind of depression where they didn’t want help.