Need some advice. So the ladies that know of me here know that at the last minute, one week before my wedding, my mother decided to go back on her word about paying for my wedding. This left us with pulling 10k out of our butts, last minute, bc she was offended when we told her to let US be Natalia's parents. So now, my husband is still salty about it. He says he doesn't want my mother buying things for our daughter, well, Christmas is coming up. This is her first grandbaby and grandbaby's first Christmas. So the stress I have dealt with since August is still there. My take is this; I think it's not fair at all what my mother did to us but I also think it's not fair to my mother to tell her that she cannot get gifts for my daughter. This crap is honestly going to be the crap that tears my marriage apart. I told my mother not to get her anything last night. She flipped out on me. So here I am, AGAIN, in the middle of this and ready to pull my hair out.