@ssdj4, sounds like what I do and I don’t think I’m a bad Mom heck I don’t even pick my 11 month old up every time he falls and cries unless I think he’s actually hurt because if I do he cries way harder 🤷🏼‍♀️

@blendedfamilyof7 exactly but my dad sees it as I'm ignoring them no matter what I do. I am apparently in the wrong for not holding my 11 month old every time he cries because he gets something taken out of his mouth or whatever. And also because I don't yell at them the first time they do something wrong. I give them one chance to correct their behavior and then they get in trouble.

My 11 month old is currently completely absorbed in Moana as long as your not using the tv or phone or whatever to keep you kid entertained so you can ignore them and leave them alone I don’t see why it matters