@sarisings, oh ok . That’s crazy I hope he gets some anger management bcs that’s not ok poor lady .

@elisa_c4k7 Oh yeah I'm smarter than that lol the person I'm talking about is my bfs brother. My bf tried addressing it but people like that don't change unless they wanna. So we don't even waste our breath. Just sucks when he destroys stuff in her house because she works so hard. He just flips out.... Literally like a small child with no self control.

@sarisings, yea maybe she’s just used to it and never learned how to change things . But I kno it’s not my business but just be careful bcs how they treat the women in their family esp their own mom is how they can end up treating you . Plus I’m sure he wouldn’t want his child treating him like that smh

@elisa_c4k7 I think it's because she's getting older, she doesn't let it affect her... She just lives her life.

@sarisings, oh I see but that doesn’t make it ok and I can’t stand when mothers allow disrespect from their kids. I don’t tolerate that from nobody never mind someone that came out my vagina and that I raised lol

@elisa_c4k7 He has issues and I don't mean that in a judgemental way... He truly does have problems. He doesn't conduct himself as a normal person in society.

@fasciamom He says these things when he is mad, very short tempered... Never apologizes.

@sarisings, why is he like that with her ?

@sarisings no way I wouldnt have it.

So I jokingly call my parents names and they call me names back. I'm not a very affectionate girl so we all get a laugh out of if (it's messed up to everyone else but we think it's funny)

However, my son will never see the light of day if he ever disrespects me, after I cleaned his shit, puke, messes, etc, his whole life.

I truly believe tho you get what you earn and he's gonna get it coming to him for treating his mother badly

@ashtonndamon Yeah I really don't get it. I feel bad, but then I don't because she lets him do it. And still helps him. And he curses as her, yells, calls her "nigga" and "bitch" like she's one of his homies. I can't.......

I once was. And I can way from experience the way they treat her is the way they will treat you even if they don't in the beginning. They are comfortable with their mom. Wait untill they become comfortable with you it's a cycle it never ends.

It depends on if their mom raised them so for me its a red flag if they disrespect anybody who raised them. They took time out of their life to make sure you got what you needed for YEARS and if thats not enough to earn your respect im not sure I could at all.

@rach.robinson That's a whole different story... Still wouldn't be okay with my bf disrespecting his mom.

@sarisings, exactly! Huge red flags,I would be gone in a second.

@carolinepinheiro Thank you! Agreed. If they can't respect their own mother who does everything for them, they sure as hell aren't going to respect you.

The way a man treats his mother is the way he treats the person he’s with. I personally couldn’t be with someone who disrespects their mother.