Ok guys so my fears came true....i lost my baby for the 4th time at 6 weeks 3 days...AGAIN! Rather then being upset and…

I'm so sorry! And I hope you get answers soon! Sending love your way!

@lauren1996 thank you im putting my foot down this time....4 times at 6 weeks is no longer a coincidence! There has to be something going on down there that is preventing them from getting past that point. X

@amyloux, I just pray you get the answers you want! Hope eveything will work out thou beaut!x

So sorry for your loss Hun. Thinking of you. You are a very brave girl xx

@mezaab Thank you. I have to be strong as sad as it is crying isn't going to get me the answers I need! X

Didn't u have a scan n saw a heart beat hun .... I'm so sorry to hear that i have been thriugh this similar situation is so sad and not fair at all ...@amyloux

@sara87 yeah I did last week measured 6 weeks but measured 6 weeks 3 days with no heartbeat yesterday so had a D&C today. I've had most of the tests that the NHS cover and all have come back fine. Had progesterone tablets this time and last time and baby aspirin this time round as well. All 4 times have been 6 weeks 3 days and all missed miscarriages. It's baffling tbh. That's why I need to be strong! X

I'm so sorry.......

so so unfair i no hun... I'm glad they r going to look in to this matter more seriously for you this just don't add up that it don't go further than 6 weeks .. Don't think u r the only women who been thriugh this hun its just part of life n we just have to put up with it even its so unfair ... Hope god gives strength u r very strong xxxxxxx

@sara87 thank you! Tbh even the doctors seem confused as to why it's always 6 weeks which doesn't help. Gonna try everything possible to get an answer and just pray I'm one of the "lucky" ones who get an answer as I'm aware most woman with RCM don't even find out why! Just got to be strong and grateful I have an outlet with this group xx

@amyloux I'm so sorry to hear this. you've probably already googled things but give this thread a read. there is one woman on here saying she had 7 miscarriages and it turned out to be to do with killer cells. - I'm sorry if this sounds insensitive in any way I'm not great with words just wanted to show you xxx https://community.babycenter.com/post/a25957683/recurrent_miscarriage_at_5_weeks

@courtney0503 definitely isnt insensitive hun. Did you say it's somebody on here?

@amyloux no I'm not sure who it is. I meant someone on the thread. if you follow the link it's the 7th one down I think. x

@courtney0503 oh I'm sorry I didn't see the link originally for some reason. I did see that post earlier strangely enough (Your right in saying I have googled a lot) thank you xxx

@amyloux I didn't add the link the first time like the numpty I am 😂 . I just thought if I could help in any way I wanted to try. I hope you get answers soon xxx

@courtney0503 haha I thought I was being blind lol I Carried On reading the entire thread and there is a few people on there in the same position as me. Have got some screenshots and will discuss with my consultant when I go in for my MRI. Just stocking up on as much information as possible so they can't fob be off (not that I think they will but you never know sometimes) I'll have an answer to hopefully counter there comments with. I WILL get answers and will have my rainbow baby! Xx (sorry that was a bit of a rant) xx

@amyloux ranting is good! it means you aren't bottling it up which is always the worst thing to do. at least if you have all your info they know how serious you are and that they can't get away with saying "these things happen". I'll send you all of my good luck. (I haven't got much but every little helps😊) xx

@courtney0503 thank you it means a lot! I will obviously keep you all updated. Right now im going to sort myself out get through Christmas and then it's time to figure this out once and for all hopefully xx

Really sorry for your loss :(( hope you are ok! Xxxx

So sorry for your loss. Xxx

So sorry to hear this Hun my thoughts are with you, hope you get some answers soon xx

@t3mp3rz88

@marmaritaaa that's soooo sad

@t3mp3rz88 i think you should do the same and go to a specialist, i didnt know that there are specialist in this

@t3mp3rz88 you need to speak to your consultant and don't take no for an answer. To be see by a specialist you have to be referred xx

@marmaritaaa @amyloux o have gone to 3 specialists and they said all my results were normal

@t3mp3rz88 Have they tested your natural killer cells? They don't do it on the NHS and they don't mention it to you you have to bring it up it was in the newspaper in the UK the other day xx

@amyloux oh ok ill bring it up

@amyloux @marmaritaaa i just finished the meds they gave me to bring my period after a missed miscarriage and i have had no bleeding whatsoever and no spotting

@t3mp3rz88 I've never had the meds before. I had a D&C yesterday. Is the meds to enable you to miscarry naturally? Xx

@amyloux yes i took those and never got anything

@t3mp3rz88 that's odd. I would go back to the doctor if you haven't misscarried yet then you may need to have the op