***rant- i feel the need to do this since its really bothering me for some reason***
So im not sure why but it still irritates me that the only people who came to visit me the first week after i had my daughter was my mom, step dad, sister and my son. My fiancées family said they would visit and that they love me unlike my fiancees sons mother, but i needed a lot of help with lifting my son and getting up(my uterus was tilted and endometriosis was bad after delivery) and they were no where to be found so i had to rely on my fiancee when he got off and my mom to help me everyday until i felt fine doing things on my own.