It's sad that I have to legit worry about my sons well being in the care of his own father. That's…
It's sad that I have to legit worry about my sons well being in the care of his own father. That's truly sad 😟 and idk what to do about it. The courts won't do shit until the damage is already done
Jess·
@morgan.k, right!!! Ugh. My lawyer even flat out said the courts don't ever do anything until something bad happens I'm like that's the dumbest shit ever! I want my son to be ok not something bad happen to him! 😠
Marilu·
@morgan.k, can you buy a mini cam? No way I could endure that without going to jail.
Jess·
@morgan.k, I feel you! My lawyers told me the same thing. I have no "proof" and things I've witnessed in the past stand no ground. It's frustrating because I just know things because I know his father. I will have my son tested to see if any wheat is in his system after I've gave time for it to pass with his new gluten free diet. Cause I gave a feeling his dad isn't going to follow it. And Just give him whatever. My son has a wheat allergy! That's child abuse/neglect. He'll be deliberately poising him now that he knows he has an allergy and i told him he needed to go gluten free. I also worry about the state of his house and it being dirty and not well kept and safety issues, and him having an inground pool accessible to my son. I've thought about calling cps to at least check if his house is kept up and safe for a child but I doubt they'll do anything.
Jess·
@morganmommy79, and i would beat a bitch and the dad. I don't even care. No one is putting there hands on my kid. Oh hell no @morgan.k
Jess·
@morgan.k, I know unfortunately we have our kids to think about and need to restrain ourselves. But my ex would get his ass torn apart by me. I'd ream him a new one. He wouldn't know what him.
Marilu·
@missjess, @morgan.k, I don't get people. It's not the kids they're even mad at. But it's the easiest way to make the parent angry BUT WHY would the other parent allow this?????
Jess·
@morganmommy79, they don't care! My ex would probably let it happen in spite of me! He's type of person who avoids conflict so he'd just sit there eating his pizza like oh she hitting my kid.. Ok I'll let her ☹️😒 he better not if he knows what's good for him. They need to protect our kids in there care but dudes are neglectful they don't know what they're doing and is trying to help them is like nagging and then thinking they can't handle it. Which they can't but they lie to come off like they can. It's a no wonder courts give physical custody to mothers' we are just better at taking care of our kids@morgan.k I'm glad he got rid of her and stepped up for his kids! I'd hope my ex would do the same
Marilu·
@morgan.k, good for him! Good thing you took action and he listened.
Marilu·
@missjess, my brother is like that, he hates any sort of confrontation. So he'll let a lot of things slide with his ex and his fiancé. He's 6'4" 280 lbs and wears an 18 shoe, but is gentle as a teddy bear. Lol
Jess·
@morganmommy79, my ex is 6'4 like 250? I wouldn't say he's gentle like a teddy bear lol but he does try to avoid it and he's very passive as a parent. But he can be the biggest douche ever!
Marilu·
@missjess, my husband is the biggest douche ever. Lol
Jess·
@morganmommy79, we are in the same boat lol 😕😒